Practical Christianity:  Another Kingdom Part 3:  Conscience Without Contempt

(Part 3 of 5)

Floatie:  Not Every Issue Is a Gospel Issue

Romans 14:4  Who are you to pass judgment on the servant of another?  It is before his own master that he stands or falls.  And he will be upheld, for the Lord is able to make him stand.(ESV)

Scripture is clear where Scripture is clear.  But not every civic decision is a direct moral command.  Some are wisdom judgments.  Some are applications of principle.  Some involve tradeoffs between goods.

When secondary judgments are treated as tests of salvation, unity fractures.  Kingdom citizens share one Lord, one faith, one baptism (Ephesians 4:4–6).  They don’t share identical conclusions on every policy question.

Distinguishing primary from secondary matters isn’t compromise.  It’s maturity.


✒️ Forge:  Liberty Under Lordship

Romans 14 addresses disputable matters — issues where believers, seeking to honor the Lord, reached different conclusions.

Paul doesn’t flatten truth.  He doesn’t celebrate relativism.  He doesn’t endorse sin.  He does insist that servants belong to the Lord, not to one another.

This doesn’t remove standards.  It locates final judgment in the correct place.

Political judgments often fall into this category:

  • Competing applications of justice.
  • Competing assessments of prudence.
  • Competing priorities within shared moral boundaries.

Uniformity isn’t the same as unity.


⚒️ Anvil:  The Sin of Caricature

Polarization thrives on caricature.  We simplify complex motives.  We assume bad faith.  We reduce people to slogans.  But bearing false witness is still sin — even when it helps “our side.”

Ask yourself:

  • Do I misrepresent opposing arguments to make them easier to defeat?
  • Do I assume moral corruption where there may be sincere disagreement?
  • Do I equate disagreement with rebellion against God?

Contempt corrodes fellowship faster than disagreement ever could.  The Lord’s servant must not be quarrelsome but kind (2 Timothy 2:24).  That instruction applies even when you believe you are correct.


🔥 Ember:  The Quiet Pride of Moral Superiority

There is a subtle temptation in polarized climates:  to believe that clarity equals superiority.  If you conclude differently than another believer, you may feel morally elevated.  But clarity is a gift, not a credential.

The Pharisee in Luke 18 thanked God he wasn’t like other men.  His theology wasn’t entirely wrong.  His posture was.

If your political conclusions make you feel cleaner than your brother, pride has entered quietly.  Kingdom citizens can hold conviction without contempt.


🌿 Covenant Triumph:  A Body That Refuses to Devour Itself

Galatians 5:15 warns against biting and devouring one another.  A church that mirrors cultural polarization forfeits its witness.  Kingdom unity isn’t built on identical policy preferences.  It’s built on shared allegiance to Christ.

That means:

  • You may debate vigorously.
  • You may disagree sharply.
  • You may advocate passionately.

But you don’t fracture fellowship over prudential differences.  You remember whose servant your brother is.  You remember whose law governs you both.  And you refuse to let secondary judgments eclipse primary allegiance.


[⚓ Floatie] [✒️ Forge] [⚒️ Anvil] [🔥 Ember] [🌿 Covenant Triumph]
This post follows the Forge Baseline Rule—layered truth for the discerning remnant.

2 responses to “Practical Christianity:  Another Kingdom Part 3:  Conscience Without Contempt”

  1. RW - Disciple of Yahshua Avatar
    RW – Disciple of Yahshua

    This is extremely hard for me to do, especially when under personal attack from the “other perspective”. Sometimes it’s just better for the whole to just walk away.

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    1. Don Avatar
      Don

      I’ve struggled with this a lot over the years. I conflated disagreement with identity. I think the people I was arguing with were doing the same. I would often watch arguments shift from the topic of discussion and slowly devolve into left-handed compliments, snide remarks, and outright insults. The people on both sides of the argument lost the narrative of and purpose for the discussion because it became more about being right than it was about the open and honest discussion of the given point. These groups were initially set up specifically to invite open and honest discussion that didn’t veer into insults. This was supposed to encourage diverse views to find common ground on some topics and the failing points of arguments on both sides. It was meant to be a debate. It usually turned into mud slinging.

      I became obsessed with these groups. It was to the point where my wife had me blocked on social media because she didn’t want to see any of the discussions. I did eventually walk away from all of those groups, but the tendencies to argue are still there. I regularly have to resist the urge to jump into any conversation that’s obviously meant to be controversial. I know that those conversations are just click-bait meant to attract clicks and comments. It makes them money. I still fall for it now and then.

      Still, I agree that it’s often better to just walk away. The problem is that most people today only talk about these kinds of topics when they want to gin up controversy. It’s never about the discussion.

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