Practical Christianity:  Behind the Face of Addiction Part 1 — When Regulation Replaces Lordship

(Part 1 of 5)

Floatie:  The Subtle Exchange of Masters

Romans 6:16  Do you not know that if you present yourselves to anyone as obedient slaves, you are slaves of the one whom you obey, either of sin, which leads to death, or of obedience, which leads to righteousness?(ESV)

Addiction does not begin with excess.  It begins with permission.

Long before chains are felt, authority is quietly transferred.  Something other than God is allowed to regulate what we feel, how we cope, what brings relief, and where we run when life becomes unbearable.  By the time addiction is visible, lordship has already changed hands.

Scripture does not ask what you consume.  It asks whom you obey.


✒️ Forge:  Addiction Is Not About Objects, but Authority

Matthew 6:24  “No one can serve two masters, for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other.  You cannot serve God and money.(ESV)

The modern world treats addiction as a category reserved for extremes:  drugs, alcohol, gambling, sex.  Scripture does not.  Scripture treats addiction as a condition of bondage—a state in which something other than God exercises functional authority over a person’s inner life.

Addiction forms when a created thing is given the role of regulator.

Regulation is not the same as enjoyment.
Regulation is not the same as use.
Regulation is not the same as appreciation.

Regulation means this:  When my inner state is disturbed, I go here.

Scripture consistently frames this issue in terms of mastery, not morality.

2 Peter 2:19  They promise them freedom, but they themselves are slaves of corruption.  For whatever overcomes a person, to that he is enslaved.(ESV)

Addiction is not defined by how sinful something looks.  It is defined by what governs your inner life when pressure is applied.


⚒️ Anvil:  The Mechanics of Addiction Formation

James 1:14–15  (14)But each person is tempted when he is lured and enticed by his own desire.  (15)Then desire when it has conceived gives birth to sin, and sin when it is fully grown brings forth death.(ESV)

Scripture describes addiction not as a sudden fall, but as a progression.

First:  Novelty and Intensity
Novelty forces attention.  Desire narrows focus.  Relief feels immediate.

Ecclesiastes 7:29  See, this alone I found, that God made man upright, but they have sought out many schemes.(ESV)

Addiction rarely begins with rebellion.  It begins with a scheme that works.

Second:  Regulation
What once happened becomes something chosen.  The object is no longer incidental—it becomes functional.

Proverbs 14:12  There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way to death.(ESV)

Third:  Pattern Recognition
The system adapts.  What once produced relief now produces neutrality.  More input is required for the same effect.

Scripture does not explain neurochemistry—but it does explain diminishing return.

Haggai 1:6  You have sown much, and harvested little.  You eat, but you never have enough; you drink, but you never have your fill.  You clothe yourselves, but no one is warm, and he who earns wages does so to put them into a bag with holes.(ESV)

Fourth:  Escalation or Transfer
When satisfaction fades, the heart searches for the next regulator.

Jeremiah 2:13  for my people have committed two evils:  they have forsaken me, the fountain of living waters, and hewed out cisterns for themselves, broken cisterns that can hold no water.(ESV)

Fifth:  Withdrawal
When the regulator is removed, fear and disorientation surge.  Scripture names this experience honestly.

Isaiah 57:20  But the wicked are like the tossing sea; for it cannot be quiet, and its waters toss up mire and dirt.(ESV)

Withdrawal feels chaotic because false peace has been removed.


🔥 Ember:  Addiction Is the Search for Intensity as Escape

Hebrews 11:25  choosing rather to be mistreated with the people of God than to enjoy the fleeting pleasures of sin.(ESV)

Addiction promises relief through intensity.  Intensity narrows focus.  Narrowed focus reduces awareness.  Reduced awareness feels like peace.

But Scripture is very clear:  pleasure is not the problem—fleeting pleasure is.

Intensity does not heal pain.  It delays it.

Over time, intensity demands escalation, and escalation demands obedience.

John 8:34  Jesus answered them, “Truly, truly, I say to you, everyone who practices sin is a slave to sin.”(ESV)

Practice precedes slavery.  Slavery precedes collapse.


🌿 Covenant Triumph:  Naming the Root Before Naming the Chains

Galatians 5:1  For freedom Christ has set us free; stand firm therefore, and do not submit again to a yoke of slavery.(ESV)

Deliverance cannot begin until addiction is named correctly.

Addiction is not primarily:

  • a lack of discipline,
  • a moral defect,
  • a personality flaw,
  • or a failure of effort.

Addiction is misplaced lordship.

Whatever you consistently turn to for regulation will eventually shape obedience.  Whatever shapes obedience will shape identity.  Whatever shapes identity will claim authority.

Colossians 2:6  Therefore, as you received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk in him,(ESV)

Christ does not offer a competing regulator.  He claims exclusive lordship.

This series will not begin by telling you what to quit.  It will begin by revealing who—or what—has been ruling you.

Only then can deliverance occur—not as spectacle, not as emotion, but as covenantal transfer.

Freedom does not start with behavior.  Freedom starts with allegiance.


[⚓ Floatie] [✒️ Forge] [⚒️ Anvil] [🔥 Ember] [🌿 Covenant Triumph]
This post follows the Forge Baseline Rule—layered truth for the discerning remnant.

2 responses to “Practical Christianity:  Behind the Face of Addiction Part 1 — When Regulation Replaces Lordship”

  1. RW - Disciple of Yahshua Avatar
    RW – Disciple of Yahshua

    I have suffered through many addictions over the years, many, but I have never considered them to be “misplaced lordship”, but that is EXACTLY what they are and have been. This one will be a hard pill for some to swallow, but recovery programs can also fall into this misplaced lordship category. There are a few that point you to Him, but as with all things outside of Him, they still fall short.

    “Messiah does not offer a competing regulator.  He claims exclusive lordship.”

    He doesn’t need to compete, He just is. Or as scripture states “I AM WHO I AM”.

    I’m really struggling this morning. I’ve had to make some tough decisions concerning one of my children and it is extremely difficult to follow through with, but through this morning’s message I realized that I’m trying to be, unintentionally, the competing regulator and that’s not my position of authority in their life. I must truly and completely surrender them to Abba’s guidance and direction. I am just getting in the way of His work. Abba help me through this!

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    1. Don Avatar
      Don

      We can become addicted to drama, people, and roles just as easily as any drug in history. I have fought so many addictions myself. Each new one only replaced an older one. It’s something I still struggle with. This is part of my regular prayer life. I regularly ask Him to show me the areas where I’m trying to take control or replace Him. I struggle with this the most in my marriage and as a father. My fear of losing or failing them is such a strong influence in my life. It’s been a slow process. I see the path. I’m just not there yet.

      I know that I have to be the visible example for them. This means doing my best to live according to His will and not mine, but also admitting failures and sins of my own. I have to take care of myself, including proper boundaries and self-respect, before I can expect them to follow any examples I would want to give them. I have to live out the priorities in my life and be ready to explain to them why those are the way they are. God always comes first. Then their mother. Then them. Everything else can shift around as needed, but those things must be constant. If those things shift then truth is lost. I’m called to call sin what it is. I’m also called to be open about my own sins and the results of that.

      I’d like to say that all of the decisions I’ve made in my marriage and as a father have been made through this lens. That would be a lie. I’ve never intentionally done things to hurt any of them, but I also know that I have made plenty of panic decisions over the years. Decisions made without proper context or without proper prayer. You know the consequences of these things. There’s plenty of examples in the bible about people rushing His timing.

      Speaking specifically on the recovery programs…
      Absolutely. I love several of these programs, but like churches or any other institution where power and authority rest, the leaders in those organizations can become addicted to the power and authority and thus fall victim to the very addictions they claim to be helping. I’ve seen it happen in the best programs. The steps become more important than the result. When progress is only measured by numbers there is a problem. It’s the same problem with public schools that teach to the test. The student learns how to take the test instead of how to learn. This is a truly fascinating part of the human experience. The moment we try to find the formula for something then that formula becomes the new authority.

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