Practical Christianity:  Fruit of the Spirit

Floatie:  The Evidence of a Life Actually Changed

Galatians 5:22–23  (22) But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, (23)gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.(ESV)

The Fruit of the Spirit is not a personality test.  It is not a temperament chart.  It is not a list of “nice Christian behaviors.”
It is the measurable evidence of the Holy Spirit actually transforming a human life from the inside out.

Every believer is meant to bear this fruit.  But the order, the nature, the growth, and the counterfeit versions must be understood clearly—or what we call “fruit” becomes nothing more than polished flesh.


✒️ Forge:  The Order, the Counterfeits, and the Genuine Work of the Spirit

1. The Order Is Theological, Not Poetic
Paul didn’t list these nine traits in a random sequence.  Each one depends on the one before it.  They rise like a living structure—root to stem to leaf to fruit—and every layer must be healthy for the next to form.  Attempting to develop a later fruit without the earlier ones results in distortion, not transformation.

2. Every Fruit Has a Counterfeit the Flesh Can Produce
You can fake patience.
You can fake kindness.
You can fake faithfulness.
You can absolutely fake self-control.

The flesh is good at imitation but terrible at endurance.  What the Spirit produces lasts.  What the flesh produces collapses under pressure.  So the counterfeits must be exposed.

BREAKDOWN OF THE FRUIT (True vs. Counterfeit)

LOVE

True:  Self-giving, covenantal, ordered affection that seeks another’s eternal good.
Counterfeit:  Attachment, infatuation, dependence, or ideological “love.”

Why it’s first:  Nothing grows without the heart being rewired.

JOY

True:  Stable delight in God that circumstances cannot alter.
Counterfeit:  Excitement, relief, positivity, or dopamine.

Why it follows:  Love sets identity; joy sets orientation.

PEACE

True:  Inner stillness rooted in trust in God’s sovereignty.
Counterfeit:  Numbness, avoidance, detachment, or apathy.

Why it follows:  Joy stabilizes desire; peace stabilizes the inner world.

PATIENCE

True:  Steadfastness through delay without resentment.
Counterfeit:  Tolerance, resignation, fear of confrontation.

Why it follows:  Peace must be tested before it becomes endurance.

KINDNESS

True:  Intentional use of strength for another’s good.
Counterfeit:  Niceness, people-pleasing, appeasement.

Why it follows:  Only a patient soul can aim strength correctly.

GOODNESS

True:  Integrity of motive; doing right because it is right.
Counterfeit:  Moralism, performance, reputation management.

Why it follows:  Kindness practiced over time refines motive.

FAITHFULNESS

True:  Reliability rooted in trust in God, not personal benefit.
Counterfeit:  Loyalty to the wrong things, identity performance, duty without love.

Why it follows:  Goodness establishes integrity; faithfulness reveals consistency.

GENTLENESS

True:  Strength mastered and restrained intentionally.
Counterfeit:  Weakness, timidity, passivity, softness.

Why it follows:  Only a stable, faithful soul can wield power with restraint.

SELF-CONTROL

True:  Mastery of desire because desire has been transformed.
Counterfeit:  Suppression, stoicism, shame-based discipline, habit-driven restraint.

Why it’s last:  It is the outward expression of a fully reordered inner world.


⚒️ Anvil:  How Each Fruit Actually Grows (What Transformation Costs)

LOVE grows by the death of ego.  God dismantles our need to be the center.

JOY grows by the death of idols.  God removes false sources of identity and satisfaction.

PEACE grows by the death of control.  God leaves us in situations we cannot fix so we learn trust.

PATIENCE grows by the death of entitlement.  God allows delay so our timeline bows to His.

KINDNESS grows by the death of self-interest.  God calls us to serve even when it is inconvenient or unnoticed.

GOODNESS grows by the death of hypocrisy.  God brings consistency between our public and private lives.

FAITHFULNESS grows by the death of self-preservation.  God asks us to stay when we want to run.

GENTLENESS grows by the death of pride.  God teaches us to restrain power, not flaunt it.

SELF-CONTROL grows by the death of sinful desire.  Not repression—replacement.

In every case, the Spirit kills something in us to resurrect something better.  Fruit is resurrection, not renovation.


🔥 Ember:  The Witness of Transformation

True fruit is never shown inward first.
It is always revealed in how others experience you.

  • People feel love.
  • They see joy.
  • They recognize peace.
  • They lean on patience.
  • They trust kindness.
  • They rely on goodness.
  • They depend on faithfulness.
  • They are safe with gentleness.
  • They respect self-control.

Fruit is not for admiration.  It is nourishment.  Others eat from what grows in you.  The test of fruit is not how you feel.  It’s how people heal around you.


🌿 Covenant Triumph:  Fruit as Proof of the Spirit’s Presence

The Fruit of the Spirit is not optional.  It is not extra credit.  It is not spiritual decoration.  It is the outward evidence of inward covenant.  It is what happens when a soul abides in Christ long enough for the life of Christ to take shape within it.  This world does not need nicer Christians.
It needs transformed Christians—people whose lives reveal:

  • love that isn’t needy,
  • joy that isn’t circumstantial,
  • peace that isn’t fragile,
  • patience that isn’t passive,
  • kindness that isn’t manipulative,
  • goodness that isn’t performative,
  • faithfulness that isn’t conditional,
  • gentleness that isn’t weakness,
  • and self-control that isn’t repression.

Not personality traits.  Not behavior management.  Not Christian aesthetics.

But evidence.

Fruit.

The kind only the Spirit can grow.


[⚓ Floatie] [✒️ Forge] [⚒️ Anvil] [🔥 Ember] [🌿 Covenant Triumph]
This post follows the Forge Baseline Rule—layered truth for the discerning remnant.

12 responses to “Practical Christianity:  Fruit of the Spirit”

  1. cleaners4seniors Avatar

    Fakes and counterfeits.
    Cringe… 😖
    Growing 🌱 in and through Jesus is a life long (commitment)
    Humility is probably learned best after … learning what comes after pride. (The fall)
    Grace is followed… learning repentance after the fall 💔
    Living according to the spirit not the flesh , should be understood better at this point. Along with the freedom of being able to forgive others by showing them the same grace. (If they know or not)
    Im pretty sure , I think 🤔 , this is love. ❤️ Comes from the heart .. which flows (our words).
    This is an example of fruit. Its a new process .. the transformation .
    This sounds sweet but requires the Holy Spirit to guide and strengthen, the conviction, the teacher 🕊️
    How is this possible without first being Born Again and sealed ?
    (Eph 1)
    How is it possible without living by faith? Without hearing the Word?

    *Its not.

    A counterfeit or fake only applies the quickest fix bandaid that never heals at the root.
    Its a topical ointment. To cover up and stop 🛑 an infection until it shows up again for ‘ another fix’

    This is why
    Artificial Conversations
    Beautiful photos
    Images of Jesus
    Misquoted scripture
    Inspirational sayings

    Look good and sound good
    Glorify the sender
    Create addictions or idols
    Are rotten fruit of the flesh.

    Question: Can a sinner who lives according to the feel good doctrines (flesh ), who loves this darkness, who lacks Or ignores…Holy Spirit conviction
    Make a fair determination of another? Will they not only display a jealousy or show bitterness and envy ? And once angry.. spit out false accusations against the one striving (daily)… to learn and grow 🌱
    At the same time.. saying I love you
    🤭

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      Don

      Nailed it! Knowing the truth sets you free. Free from suspicion of every action. Free from the guilt of past mistakes. Free from the chains or cages that trauma builds. When the foundation is love then everything built on that is solid and unshakable.

      Your question at the end is one you already know that answer to. No, they can judge, accuse, project, or resent, but they can’t discern. The root is false. The foundation is weak. Just because it never crumbles doesn’t mean it was strong. A house of cards will stand forever if not for decay or something pushing against it. That doesn’t mean it’s ever strong. They can say the words all day, but their motives will always be twisted by the sin that is poisoning the roots. The best kind of love they can offer is selfish, full of rules and caveats. Often, when it’s no longer convenient, that love will dry up and blow away in a light breeze at the first sign of testing or adversity. I think we’ve both seen this in action.

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  2. cleaners4seniors Avatar

    Yes!!!
    Thank you 🙏 😃

    A headmaster/ teacher/ mentor at my sons private school used to say.
    ” when a student (or anyone) can apply his heart to every matter (Biblically), and can teach it to another, he has understood the concept’.
    ….. Get wisdom/Get understanding…

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    1. Don Avatar
      Don

      Amen! I was always told something similar. An old teacher would tell us that if we cant’ teach it to someone else then we don’t understand it ourselves. I’ve always had to balance that between another saying that I kept hearing growing up which was “those who can’t do, teach”.

      Honestly, I find the two are both true. There are those who teach because they aren’t good enough at the subject to actually do the work. Then there are those who truly understand it and are passionate about improving the next generation, and so, teach. I understand me. I know me. I understand the things I’ve experienced. That’s my testimony. Sharing my testimony seems to help others. You have a testimony as well. It’s something uniquely you. It’s something that only you can share. It’s something as unique and special as you are. It seems to me that it’s almost a sin to not teach something that only you will ever know. Who knows? The key to world peace may rest in your experiences, and we will never find it if you don’t share.

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      1. cleaners4seniors Avatar

        Im private mostly and do not open old wounds without pupose.
        Im open to sharing testimony for purposes of faith building. Putting trust in our sovereign God because He /not us. (works).
        Im not favorable in replacing my personal testimony vs His gospel .
        Same as not promoting a fear based (end of the world) get saved now! Gospel.
        But
        I understand, like here opening up and sharing (experience strength and hope) with someone, for a purpose.
        Teaching encourages, faith building
        (Spirit/Truth), is what I think we all desperately need within our fellowship. Not …. entertainment
        😏
        Entertainment is like for extracurricular activities. Good clean fun . Outside of work work work. R&R is R (right)

        It’s been a pleasure.. painful at start to be able to continue here.
        I came in feeling so broken and feel restored renewed and breaking through to a new transformation.
        I’ve been blessed during this short time also to solve some other questions I had in my mind. These tools were perfectly on time !
        God never and I repeat never ceases to amaze me.
        🥲😢🙏

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      2. Don Avatar
        Don

        This isn’t a call to rip open old wounds or remove all of the carefully built structures that protect you. Please don’t think that. This is planting seeds for later. I will say this about testimony versus Gospel, How I interpret Gospel can be debated all day with no ground given or taken. My testimony, however, is mine, and nobody can tell me (or you) that God didn’t hold us through those dark times. Growth happens in His timing, but always prepares us for what is to come next. Not every conversation is an invitation to over share our pain. There always will be times when silence is the better teacher.

        I strongly believe that every person needs a mentor to learn from and someone to teach. You can have as many peers as you like, but they will not usually push you to grow. The mentor will push you to grow while the mentee will show the fruit of that growth.

        One last thing, those feelings of brokenness will fade with time. I started this Verse of the Day group as a way to help other people who had been through things like I had. I didn’t know at the time how much I needed this journey as well. Even in my days with Living Free I knew that helping others was a huge step in helping myself. The only way we can effectively reach down to help others up is if we have a handhold anchored higher up. The mechanics of pulling them up, if done correctly, will also lift you up. I can’t repeat this enough when I say that people like you, responding and asking questions with honesty and openness, has helped me more than you may ever know.

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      3. cleaners4seniors Avatar

        I think 🤔.. speaking from my experience (perception), God has brought to light my sin (s) or someone else’s inflicted on me which caused (?)….
        within time.
        To this day I still have old very old incidents pop in my mind. They put together another piece of my puzzle. In turn helps me understand things about myself.
        Then.. these commentaries, testimonials, helps you have shared for instance, give me that path to grow or heal , or complete my understanding without being overwhelmed or falling into a state of hopelessness.
        If that makes sense. In part trying not to overthink or overwrite here.
        I dont want to confuse the uniqueness of this .
        Generalization of this process is not possible !
        Humbly .. grateful 🥲

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      4. Don Avatar
        Don

        It sounds to me like you’re exactly where you need to be. It’s not the kind of race where you have to be the first one there. It’s an endurance race that will be measured by how much you’re willing to yield to His authority and will. One thing that always fascinates me about this process is that it always seems to be one small word or tiny gesture that gets examined when these major changes in our lives take place. It’s almost like a single grain of sand was holding the whole of the ocean back. Remove that one grain and everything shifts. The best part is that this pattern can repeat as often as we need it to for us to grow. The scale might change but the pattern holds true. Friday, I talk about something that even my wife didn’t know until last night. I hadn’t thought about it for literal decades until yesterday. It derailed a whole day.

        As far as overthinking, I’m a master at that. I really struggle with over analyzation of every nuance. Remember that the children of Israel followed the pillar of smoke and fire for twenty years. If that pillar sat still for days or weeks, they did as well. Sometimes, we have to just sit with things for a bit before we’re ready to move on. That’s ok. Nobody can ever tell you that you are healing wrong, so long as you are actually trying to heal. There is no time table for this kind of thing other than His. Like the growth we’ve talked about before, healing can take time. That is always ok. Love is sitting with someone while they heal without demanding that they heal faster so you can be on your way.

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      5. cleaners4seniors Avatar

        Im usually content sitting on my own since Im without a choice.
        Agree with what you said and looking forward to hearing more about your wife.

        One thing I struggle with all through my Christianity is the missing placement for women.
        The influence of feminism has played a historical part in destroying both roles for men and women.
        Personally We (women) play parts of men in the Bible. Without a choice I imagine it works for a time.
        But once it no longer works.. Im pretty sure results are in.
        For singles, widows , married & divorced alike.
        My single never married with child has been difficult from the get-go in the 90’s. Too much to be told here.
        But
        There is a shortage of women in general (my opinion), who are
        Seriously….. looking at scripture plus applying them with grace (not legalism).
        Anyhow …. moving right along here
        🐢

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        Don

        I actually love how most of the bible portrays women. I think that if people are willing to read the stories without preconceived notions of their own that often jade the stories being told then they will see exactly what women are supposed to be. I’ve written extensively about women in a lot of my older posts. I don’t think I’ve fully covered Jael (my wife’s favorite character), but I have written about many other major women in the bible. Some were great examples of virtue. Others, still causes a sour taste when their name is spoken. I think that if people were to truly understand how God views women then the debate about how important they are and what roles they should fill would end. I don’t think that women will ever stop wanting more. That was cemented into their being the moment Eve bit the forbidden fruit, but I do think that they will understand that what they are really fighting for, in many cases, isn’t equality but superiority.

        This is another topic I can bunny trail on for a long time. The war between men and women has raged since before the fall and won’t end until the second coming.

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      7. cleaners4seniors Avatar

        Would like to read some of those

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        Don

        Here is a couple of links on a quick search. I’ll dig a bit deeper when I have more time.

        Fear Is a Liar—Righteous vs. False Fear

        Unsanitized Gospel, Part 1: Women of God

        Transaction or Covenant?

        From Veil to Glory, Part 1: The Veil of Shame

        From Veil to Glory, Part 2: The Veil Torn Early

        From Veil to Glory, Part 3: The Bride Adorned in Glory

        BSYTYK: Mary and Martha

        BSYTYK: The Widow’s Mite

        To Name a Legacy 1/5

        To Name a Legacy 2/5

        To Name a Legacy 3/5

        To Name a Legacy 4/5

        To Name a Legacy 4/5

        The Bride and the Fruit

        Eve in the Garden, Part 1: The Beginning of Deception

        Eve in the Garden, Part 2:  The Gospel + Something

        Eve in the Garden, Part 3:  The Flattering Prophet

        Eve in the Garden, Part 4:  Golden Calves in the Wilderness

        Eve in the Garden, Part 5:  Wolves in Wool

        Eve in the Garden, Part 6:  The High Places We Never Tore Down

        Eve in the Garden, Part 7: Jezebel’s Table

        Eve in the Garden, Part 8:  The Appearance of Godliness

        Eve in the Garden, Part 9:  The Bride and the Beast

        Eve in the Garden, Part 10:  The Call to Come Out

        I know there are more, but this should be a good start. There are over 700 posts to go through. I really need to get a good list of topics and people I’ve covered. That would make things like this easier. I do track which verses I use, but that’s not super useful for this kind of search.

        I know this will take you some time to go through, but please take your time and ask questions on anything you read. I don’t claim to be right, but I can point you the one who is.

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