Practical Christianity:  Patience and Endurance

Floatie:  The Bones of a Faithful Life

James 1:2–4  (2)Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, (3)for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness.  (4)And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.(ESV)

Romans 5:3–4  (3)Not only that, but we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, (4)and endurance produces character, and character produces hope,(ESV)

Galatians 6:9  And let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up.”(ESV)

Patience waits on God’s timing.  Endurance walks through God’s process.  Together, they form the backbone of a life that refuses to drift.


✒️ Forge:  The Direction of Obedience

Patience is not passivity.  Endurance is not survival.  Scripture draws a line between these that modern Christianity has largely forgotten.

Patience is obedience stretched across time—the refusal to demand what God has not yet given.

Endurance is obedience stretched across pressure—the refusal to break when obedience hurts.

Patience governs posture.  Endurance governs movement.
And the two together define what Eugene Peterson famously described as “a long obedience in the same direction” in his book A Long Obedience in the Same Direction.

This is the kind of obedience that outlives emotion, outlasts motivation, and outshines momentary zeal.  Anyone can obey when the sun is warm and the wind is at their back.  It takes divine transformation to obey in the dark.

We confuse patience with waiting.  They are not the same.  Waiting is the absence of movement; patience is the presence of trust.  The world waits in frustration.  The believer waits in faith.

We confuse endurance with stubbornness.  They are not the same.  Stubbornness ultimately protects the self.  Endurance surrenders the self.

The painful truth is this:  God does not reward survival.  He rewards faithfulness.

Survival is amoral—“do whatever it takes.”
Endurance is moral—“do whatever is right.”
Survival bends truth.  Endurance stands inside it.  Survival is reactive.  Endurance is obedient.

The kingdom is not built by people who merely outlast hardship.  It is built by people who outlast hardship without sinning in the process.


⚒️ Anvil:  Where the Discipline Is Forged

Here is the simple, brutal reality of Scripture:  Patience and endurance are learned only under pressure.
No one learns them from comfort or convenience.  They are built in the crucible of waiting, pain, silence, and uncertainty.

So the practical question becomes:  How do we train patience and endurance without slipping into apathy or spiritual paralysis?

1. Do the last thing God told you to do.

Patience is not inactivity—it is continued obedience.  You don’t stand still; you stay faithful.  The last command remains valid until God gives a new one.

2. Stop demanding outcomes.

God rarely hands out timelines.  He gives promises, not delivery dates.  Impatience is the attempt to control God’s pace.  Endurance releases the pace while holding fast to the promise.

3. Pray honestly, not politely.

Apathy stops praying.  Patience prays raw.  Scripture is filled with saints who prayed through tears, groans, and open confusion.  This is what trust looks like when faith is wounded.

4. Anchor your hope to God’s character, not to the outcome.

Hope dies when it’s tied to a specific result.  Hope flourishes when tied to the One who holds the results.

5. Refuse shortcuts.

Survival compromises.  Endurance does not.  If you abandon holiness to escape pain, you didn’t endure—you survived.

6. Accept that patience is obedience measured in months and years, not minutes.

Anything short-term is not biblical patience.  Scripture speaks in seasons, generations, and lifetimes.  God is not rushed.  Neither is sanctification.


🔥 Ember:  The Wound That Witnesses

My own testimony sits inside this truth.

After a life-changing wreck, I spent five years in constant, unrelenting pain.  I lost nearly every memory before the accident.  The only thing that remained was the memory of what peace used to feel like—and a single promise I woke with:  I would be healed.

But God did not say when.  And that became the battlefield.

I waited.  I cried.  I writhed.  I endured days that felt eternal.  I held onto a promise that seemed to recede further every year.

At some point, endurance requires a choice:  Do I trust the promise enough to surrender the timeline?

I reached that point.  Not in victory, but in exhaustion shaped into acceptance.  I finally said:  “Lord, if You meant heavenly healing instead of earthly healing, You are still good.  I will still trust You.  I will still obey You.”

Not resignation.  Not apathy.  Surrender.

And the very night I truly released my demand for timing was the night the pain left me.

That is not coincidence.  That is not emotional optimism.  That is exactly how Scripture describes the intersection of humility and God’s timing:

1 Peter 5:6  Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God so that at the proper time he may exalt you,(ESV)

Not my time.  His.

Endurance is not the moment when the suffering ends.  Endurance is the moment when obedience stops depending on when the suffering ends.  That is where the miracle happened.


🌿 Covenant Triumph:  The Harvest of Slow Obedience

God does not waste endurance.  He sanctifies it.  He turns suffering into character, character into hope, and hope into a life that stands firm when others collapse.

God doesn’t rush the process because the process is the point.

Patience teaches trust.  Endurance teaches obedience.  Together, they produce disciples who cannot be bought, shaken, or broken.

The promise for the patient and the steadfast is not comfort—it is completeness:  James 1:4  “…that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.”(ESV)

And for the one who stays in the fight without compromising:  Galatians 6:9  “…in due season we will reap, if we do not give up.”(ESV)

Long obedience—even the kind made famous by Eugene Peterson—finds its true fulfillment in the hands of God, not the hands of time.

Patience shapes your posture.  Endurance shapes your will.  Together, they shape your future.  When you walk this path, you don’t just outlast your suffering.
You are forged by it.


[⚓ Floatie] [✒️ Forge] [⚒️ Anvil] [🔥 Ember] [🌿 Covenant Triumph]
This post follows the Forge Baseline Rule—layered truth for the discerning remnant.

3 responses to “Practical Christianity:  Patience and Endurance”

  1. RW - Disciple of Yahshua Avatar
    RW – Disciple of Yahshua

    Thank you for the clarifications on Patience and Endurance!

    How do we train patience and endurance without slipping into apathy or spiritual paralysis?” Great question and guidance answers.

    “Patience is not inactivity—it is continued obedience.”, “Patience prays raw.”, “Do I trust the promise enough to surrender the timeline?”, “Survival compromises.  Endurance does not.”, “God is not rushed.  Neither is sanctification.”, “Endurance is the moment when obedience stops depending on when the suffering ends.” Just a few of the many things I needed to hear out of this message.

    “Patience teaches trust.  Endurance teaches obedience.  Together, they produce disciples who cannot be bought, shaken, or broken.”

    This last one though…

    It seems I may have learned more than survival over the years after all, although “rejoicing in sufferings”, however, is still something I need to work on, as I seem to get distracted in the sufferings and lose my focus from the promises.

    Love what YHWH is doing with your sufferings and how He is using them to build the body and put clarity to the “churchy” statements that hold no weight in the actual struggles of a believer seeking to follow His will. I absolutely love this “Practical” series. Thank you brother Don.

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    1. Don Avatar
      Don

      It’s pretty cool reading your last comment knowing that this was the next post. Funny how God works sometimes.

      I would say that it can be truly difficult to “rejoice in sufferings”. This is something I still struggle with. My favorite verses in the entire bible come from Ecclesiastes 3:1-8. It boils down to “this, too, shall pass”. It’s a reminder that every season is temporary. Affliction can last our whole lives but that will eventually end. The happiness of a given moment will eventually give way to another valley. I come from a long line of bipolar people. The dramatic moods swings we deal with can be devastating. It can be mid-sentence and go from the highest peak to the lowest valley or vice versa. There doesn’t have to be a trigger. We can be on top of the world and between one word and the next suddenly be so depressed that all hope seems lost. The blink of an eye. From one breath to the next. It doesn’t need a trigger.

      I’ve had to learn to rationalize emotions. I live with them isolated from all other conscious thought. I keep them isolated so that they do not control the narrative. Emotions are to the mind what the immune system is to the body. The immune system can be ignored in most cases. So can emotions. It’s just information. I have to decide how to use that information to benefit me the most. Some immune responses should have no sway. Allergies cause physical reactions to things that aren’t usually a problem for most people. If I choose to ignore the warnings then I’ve accepted the consequences of that choice. The same thing is true for emotions in my world.

      Ok, I think I’m starting to ramble…

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