Practical Christianity:  Friction and the Throne Part 3:  Addicted to Ease

(Part 3 of 8)

Floatie:  When Desire Is No Longer Checked

The Moment Friction Collapses

Genesis 3:6–7  (6)So when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was a delight to the eyes, and that the tree was to be desired to make one wise, she took of its fruit and ate, and she also gave some to her husband who was with her, and he ate.  (7)Then the eyes of both were opened, and they knew that they were naked.  And they sewed fig leaves together and made themselves loincloths.(ESV)

By the time Eve reaches for the fruit, the battle is already decided.  The boundary has been reinterpreted.  The consequence has been softened.  The promise of elevation has been accepted.

Genesis says the tree was good for food, a delight to the eyes, and desirable to make one wise.  Notice the layering.  Physical desire.  Aesthetic attraction.  Intellectual ambition.

Nothing new was created in that moment.  The desires were already there.

What changed was resistance.

Once friction weakens, desire accelerates.

James tells us that each person is tempted when he is lured and enticed by his own desire (James 1:14).  Desire itself isn’t the sin.  It’s the unrestrained path of that desire once resistance is removed.

Friction had restrained it.  Doubt dissolved it.  And when restraint collapses, momentum builds quickly.


✒️ Forge:  The Law of Adaptation

What We Tolerate, We Normalize

The human body adapts to what it repeatedly experiences.  Expose it to stress, and it strengthens.  Expose it to comfort, and it softens.  Expose it to stimulation, and it recalibrates expectation.

This is true physically.  It’s also true spiritually.

Hebrews speaks of those who have their powers of discernment trained by constant practice to distinguish good from evil (Hebrews 5:14).  Training implies resistance.  Discernment grows under friction.

Remove resistance, and training stops.

If warning feels distant, risk feels small.  If risk feels small, action feels safe.  If action feels safe, repetition begins.  If repetition begins, adaptation follows.

What once felt dangerous starts to feel normal.  What once required effort starts to feel optional.

The serpent didn’t need to convince humanity that rebellion was good.  He only needed to make it feel manageable.

That pattern didn’t end in Eden.


⚒️ Anvil:  The Intolerance of Delay

When Waiting Feels Like Loss

One of the first casualties of friction removal is patience.

In Scripture, waiting is formative.  Abraham waits.  Israel waits.  David waits.  The prophets wait.  The Church waits.

Faith is often described not as immediate gratification, but as confident trust in what isn’t yet seen (Hebrews 11:1).

Waiting builds endurance.  Endurance builds stability.  Stability builds maturity.

But if the nervous system becomes accustomed to immediacy, waiting begins to feel like deprivation.

If every desire can be met instantly, delay feels unjust.  If every question can be answered immediately, mystery feels intolerable.  If every discomfort can be anesthetized, suffering feels unnecessary.

Adaptation changes expectation.  And expectation shapes perception.

The more we experience insulation from friction, the less capable we become of enduring it.


🔥 Ember:  When Silence Feels Threatening

Psalm 46:10(ESV) says, “Be still, and know that I am God.”

Stillness assumes tolerance for quiet.  Silence assumes capacity for unfilled space.

But if stimulation becomes constant, stillness begins to feel threatening.  Not because stillness is dangerous, but because it exposes what noise once covered.

If discomfort arises in silence, the temptation is to fill it.  If boredom appears, the instinct is to remove it.  If conviction surfaces, the reflex is to distract from it.

None of those instincts feel rebellious.  They feel reasonable.  That’s what makes adaptation so subtle.

You don’t wake up one morning intending to reject formation.  You simply adjust to ease.  Over time, ease becomes baseline.  Baseline becomes entitlement.  Entitlement becomes intolerance.

And when intolerance of friction sets in, formation slows.


🌿 Covenant Triumph:  Strength Through Resistance

Scripture doesn’t glorify suffering for its own sake.  But it does refuse to erase its formative role.

James writes, “Count it all joy… when you meet trials… for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness” (James 1:2–3)(ESV).  Testing produces something.  Resistance shapes something.

If friction disappears, testing weakens.  If testing weakens, steadfastness thins.  If steadfastness thins, instability grows.

The danger of our age may not be that we face too much hardship.  It may be that we face too little resistance in the places that matter most.

If desire is never checked, if waiting is never required, if silence is never endured, what muscle remains to carry obedience when it costs something?

Next, we dig even deeper — not into fear, but into clarity.

Adaptation is real.  Friction still matters.


[⚓ Floatie] [✒️ Forge] [⚒️ Anvil] [🔥 Ember] [🌿 Covenant Triumph]
This post follows the Forge Baseline Rule—layered truth for the discerning remnant.

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