Practical Christianity:  Ordered Desires Part 1 — Order, Ownership, and the Sanctity of the Body

(Part 1 of 3)

Floatie:  The Body Is Not Your Own

1 Corinthians 6:19–20  (19)Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God?  You are not your own, (20)for you were bought with a price.  So glorify God in your body.(ESV)

The modern world treats the body as personal property.  Scripture does not.

According to the Bible, the body is not a tool for self-expression, nor a vessel for private indulgence.  It is a dwelling place, a stewardship, and a trust.  Ownership does not rest with desire, impulse, culture, or even the self.  Ownership belongs to God.

Every ethical failure that touches the body begins with a quiet lie:  this is mine to use as I see fit.

Christian ethics begins by rejecting that premise.


✒️ Forge:  Order Precedes Purity

Genesis 1:27  So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them.(ESV)

Before there is instruction, there is design.

The body is not an accident.  It is intentional, symbolic, and functional.  Scripture presents the human body as the intersection point between the visible and invisible worlds.  Made from dust, animated by breath, and bearing the image of God, the body is where creation and eternity meet.

Because of that, order matters.

Purity is not achieved by avoidance alone.  Purity is the fruit of rightly ordered desire.  Desire itself is not corrupt.  What corrupts is desire that outruns authority.

James 1:14–15  (14)But each person is tempted when he is lured and enticed by his own desire.  (15)Then desire when it has conceived gives birth to sin, and sin when it is fully grown brings forth death.(ESV)

Desire is not condemned here.  It is unrestrained desire—desire without boundary, without submission, without formation—that produces destruction.

The problem is not that desire exists.  The problem is that desire was never meant to rule.


⚒️ Anvil:  Authority Determines Outcome

Romans 6:12–13  (12)Let not sin therefore reign in your mortal body, to make you obey its passions.  (13)Do not present your members to sin as instruments for unrighteousness, but present yourselves to God as those who have been brought from death to life, and your members to God as instruments for righteousness.(ESV)

Scripture frames bodily ethics in terms of presentation and authority.  You will always present your body to something.  Neutrality does not exist.  Either desire governs the body, or God does.  There is no third option.

This is why ethical collapse so often feels confusing.  People assume they are making isolated decisions, when in reality they have already surrendered governance.

The body follows the will.  The will follows allegiance.  When allegiance drifts, the body reflects it long before the mind admits it.

Proverbs 4:23  Keep your heart with all vigilance, for from it flow the springs of life.(ESV)

Ethics does not begin at the edge of behavior.  It begins at the center of authority.


🔥 Ember:  The Cost of Fragmentation

Psalm 51:6  Behold, you delight in truth in the inward being, and you teach me wisdom in the secret heart.(ESV)

When the body is treated as disconnected from the soul, fragmentation follows.  The outward life and inward life drift apart.  What is practiced privately no longer aligns with what is professed publicly.

This fracture produces:

  • divided attention
  • weakened resolve
  • dulled conscience
  • quiet shame
  • and habitual concealment

None of these appear suddenly.  They accumulate.  The danger is not exposure.  The danger is disintegration.

God’s concern is not moral performance.  It is internal coherence—truth in the inward being.  When the inner life is divided, spiritual strength erodes, even if external appearances remain intact.


🌿 Covenant Triumph:  Restoration Begins with Rightful Ownership

Romans 12:1  I appeal to you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship.(ESV)

Restoration does not begin with shame.  It begins with surrender.

A living sacrifice is not destroyed.  It is placed.  Returned.  Re-ordered.

Purity is not the erasure of desire.  It’s the alignment of desire under rightful authority.

God does not ask for denial of the body.  He asks for its consecration.

Where authority is restored, healing can begin.  Where ownership is clarified, freedom follows.

The Practice of Obedience:  Reclaiming Authority Over the Body

Purpose:  To move authority from impulse back to covenantal stewardship.

1. Physical Act:  Posture of Surrender

Stand or sit deliberately.  Place both hands open in front of you.  Speak aloud:  “My body belongs to the Lord.  It is not ruled by impulse.  It is presented for righteousness.”

This is not symbolic.  It is directional.

2. Relational Act:  Breaking Isolation

Choose one trusted believer.  Say:  “This is an area where formation matters for me.  I am not asking for details.  I am asking for accountability.”

Isolation strengthens temptation.  Shared light weakens it.

3. Spiritual Act:  Ordering Desire

Pray:  “Lord, show me where my desires have outrun Your authority. Teach me how to order them, not suppress them.”

Write down what He reveals.  Do not argue with it.  This prepares the ground for Part Two.

Looking Ahead

The next message will address why covenant is the only context where desire produces wholeness instead of harm, and why anything outside it inevitably fractures trust, memory, and the inner life.

This isn’t about restriction.  It’s about protection.  And it’s achievable.


[⚓ Floatie] [✒️ Forge] [⚒️ Anvil] [🔥 Ember] [🌿 Covenant Triumph]
This post follows the Forge Baseline Rule—layered truth for the discerning remnant.

5 responses to “Practical Christianity:  Ordered Desires Part 1 — Order, Ownership, and the Sanctity of the Body”

  1. Annette B Avatar

    Since we are cleansed , new bodies in Christ (all members).
    How about fleeing sin/temptation/ lust … for the sake of (love) … others.?
    1 Cor 6:15-16 Know ye not that your bodies are the members of Christ? shall I then take the members of Christ, and make them the members of an harlot? God forbid.
    What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh.

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    1. Don Avatar
      Don

      Absolutely! Paul’s language in 1 Corinthians 6 is central. Union is never private, and fleeing matters because we belong to Christ and represent Him.

      What I’m trying to press into with this series is that fleeing is necessary, but not sufficient on its own. Paul also talks about training, putting on Christ, storing the Word, and walking by the Spirit. Formation is what makes fleeing effective rather than constant.

      Love for Christ and love for others is the why. Formation is the how that sustains it.

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      1. Annette B Avatar

        The addiction series was a bit of a challenge for me to get in context.
        As a former drinker partyer when it was just fun at the time , once its an addiction (its not fun).
        Once my eyes opened I felt the shame of my behaviors and then the battle to quit began.
        Then it was cigarettes.
        In all cases though .. it’s always the thought comes first. And dwelling on it (idolizing a pleasure), along with the lie (just one or once) leads to picking it up again.

        Now through your series since those days have long passed .
        I learned I have other things to pray about . Through all these discussions, I’ve been able to process garbage and remove it.
        In seeing things differently about my mother for instance, parts of me that have some of her same (ways) that I detest. Sadly.
        Funny how it didn’t bother me to have learned to change violent and anger habits like my dad though.
        I wonder why children and adults put fathers on pedestals but crucify mothers 🧐

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      2. Don Avatar
        Don

        What you’re describing is exactly how formation works. When obvious battles are no longer consuming all the attention, deeper layers start to surface—thought patterns, inherited reflexes, and places we didn’t even know were shaping us.
        You’re right that the thought comes first, and dwelling gives it authority. And you’re also right that once shame gives way to prayer and clarity, the work shifts from quitting things to re-ordering the inner life.
        The generational pieces you’re noticing are part of that work. Some patterns feel easier to confront than others, especially when they’re tied to identity rather than behavior. That awareness itself is a sign of growth.

        BTW, the next couple of days is going to be great if this is how we start. The next couple of series grow from here progressively on these ideas.

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