Practical Christianity:  Obedience, Part 1

(Part 1 of 3)

Floatie:  The Fall of Obedience

Genesis 4:7  If you do well, will you not be accepted?  And if you do not do well, sin is crouching at the door.  Its desire is contrary to you, but you must rule over it.(ESV)

Obedience was never meant to be a leash; it was meant to be a lifeline.  From the very beginning, God’s instructions existed to protect communion, not to police it.  The law was not a wall between God and man—it was a doorway showing how to walk in His presence safely.  When humanity began treating that doorway as a barricade, obedience fell from alignment to performance.

It started long before the Pharisees and their endless rules.  The fall of obedience began with Cain and Abel—two brothers who both offered sacrifices, but only one whose heart was aligned.  Abel’s obedience flowed from gratitude; Cain’s, from pride.  One offered to honor God, the other to impress Him.  God accepted Abel’s gift not because of what he brought, but because of why he brought it.

When God corrected Cain, He didn’t condemn him.  He invited him back into alignment:  “If you do well, will you not be accepted?”  The warning that followed—“sin is crouching at the door”—shows that misaligned obedience doesn’t just miss the mark; it opens the door for rebellion.


✒️ Forge:  The Drift Begins

After the Garden, humanity’s instinct was to add layers between ourselves and the holy.  When Adam told Eve, “Don’t even touch it,” he meant well.  But that extra fence gave the serpent room to twist truth into doubt.  Fear tried to protect what only faith can preserve.  The same pattern played out for Israel:  God gave commands as guardrails for holiness; people turned them into ladders to prove righteousness.

The Law of Moses was meant to reveal God’s character—justice, mercy, faithfulness.  But over time, people multiplied laws to define holiness so precisely that they no longer needed intimacy to find it.  The Pharisees inherited that system and perfected it.  They built fences around fences, believing that the tighter the rule, the safer the soul.  What they didn’t see was that the heart inside those fences was suffocating.

Note:  I can’t point fingers here without turning one back at myself.  Every time I set extra boundaries to control outcomes—rules that make me feel safer but not necessarily more surrendered—I repeat Adam’s mistake.  Fear disguised as wisdom still distances me from trust.


Anvil:  Recognizing the Drift

How do we recognize when our obedience has drifted?  The answer is usually in the motive.

  • When obedience becomes a way to earn approval, it’s drifting.
  • When we measure righteousness by comparison, it’s drifting.
  • When our actions are driven by fear of punishment rather than love of God, it’s drifting.

The Israelites feared breaking the Law, but they stopped fearing breaking God’s heart.  Their sacrifices became empty transactions—obligations that purchased appearance instead of intimacy.  Through the prophets, God cried out, “For I desire steadfast love and not sacrifice, the knowledge of God rather than burnt offerings” (Hosea 6:6)(ESV).

That same cry echoes today.  We may not bring lambs to the altar, but we still bring offerings of time, service, and tithes.  When those gifts become proof of holiness instead of fruit of relationship, we’ve built the same altar Cain did.

Note:  This isn’t a critique of the Church at large—it’s a mirror for me.  I’ve served from pride before.  I’ve given with mixed motives.  God’s correction is the same gentle invitation He gave Cain:  “If you do well—if you realign—you’ll be accepted.”  The door is still open.


🔥 Ember:  The Weight of Misused Obedience

The saddest part of Israel’s story isn’t that they broke the Law—it’s that they kept it without love.  Legalism breaks the same way every other sin does:  from the inside out.  It starts with good intention—protecting purity—but ends by protecting power.  The Law, meant as a light, became a weapon.  The Pharisees used it to burden others, to profit from piety, and to claim superiority in God’s name.  But Jesus shattered their illusion, declaring, “Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites!  For you tithe mint and dill and cumin, and have neglected the weightier matters of the law:  justice and mercy and faithfulness.  These you ought to have done, without neglecting the others.” (Matthew 23:23)(ESV)

We read those words as history, but they’re warning labels for us.  Whenever obedience becomes about control or reputation, we’ve traded alignment for advantage.  The law of love has always been the true measure of obedience.


🌿 Covenant Triumph:  Returning to Alignment

The fall of obedience wasn’t about rules—it was about relationship.  The moment humanity began obeying for God instead of walking with Him, the connection was lost.  Every added fence, every extra rule, every “don’t even touch it” widened the gap.  But God never stopped reaching across it. Every law, every prophet, every act of discipline was His way of calling us back:  “Be holy, for I am holy.”  Not perfect, but aligned.

We obey not to earn His favor but because we already have it.  Obedience isn’t the price of love—it’s its proof.

And when we drift, the answer is still the same as it was in Eden, as it was in Genesis 4:  Return. Realign.  Rule over the sin that crouches at the door—not by strength, but by surrender.


Coming next:
Part 2 — The Restoration of Obedience.
We’ll explore how Jesus redefined obedience through perfect alignment and how His surrender unlocks our freedom to walk with God again.


[⚓ Floatie] [✒️ Forge] [⚒️ Anvil] [🔥 Ember] [🌿 Covenant Triumph]
This post follows the Forge Baseline Rule—layered truth for the discerning remnant.

4 responses to “Practical Christianity:  Obedience, Part 1”

  1. cleaners4seniors Avatar

    Good for me as I am guilty of practicing legalism. I worshipped in a Pentecostal church that I loved.
    In the beginning it was exactly what I needed. And the Holy Spirit is still guiding me comforting and strengthening…
    Eventually, I saw errors within their teaching and felt strangled. Leaving was hard and easy, happy and sad.
    Going through that season , helped me to learn grace. Learning grace as I received more of it…. along with mercy has helped me in understanding compassion.
    Currently in my quest to heal my brokenness (again), Im hoping to learn and understand love , obedience and holiness.
    I have mixed emotions on the trusting part. I hope in time I have the desire to believe I am strong enough to do whatever I am missing the mark on .
    I am staying focused, moving forward as I have new tools (thank you), to work with 🙌
    I really love how my vision becomes a bit clearer as wounds heal. I definitely have hope . ✝️🙏

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    1. Don Avatar
      Don

      Thank you for sharing. I think that what you’re describing — the mix of love, loss, and clarity— is something that most of us walk through at some point. Legalism usually feels safe at first because it gives us structure. It also slowly starts to squeeze the breath out of grace. It sounds to me like the Lord used that season to build understanding. The seeds planted then are starting to see fruit now. Some may not see fruit for years yet.

      Learning grace and mercy always seems to uncover a deeper need for both love and obedience, no? They tend to grow together. The fact that you still want to understand them shows that the Holy Spirit hasn’t stopped working in you. He’s simply changing the classroom.

      Trust doesn’t come from feeling strong enough. It grows as we see that God is strong enough for us. This is something that I’ve personally struggled with almost my entire life. Keep walking with Him, keep asking questions, and keep noticing the healing that’s already happening. Every time your vision clears a little more, that’s obedience taking root.

      Your hope is really encouraging. This is the root of the testimony that you’ll one day be called to share. Thank you for letting me walk a small part of that journey with you.

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      1. cleaners4seniors Avatar

        I like alot hearing encouraging words. A great man of faith like yourself, was the headmaster at a school I put my son in. Against all odds..
        He is a huge part opening doors for me to seeing faith. .by applying it to my whole life in every situation. He was so encouraging, Im pretty sure the first person who did not tear me down or cancel me out.
        Speaking of testimonies. I am able to solidly stand strong against Islam because, I was dating an Arab when I was literally saved 🙌
        I was in this new relationship which started off great 🙄. Until, the hijab 🧕🏼 was brought out (I refused) and a Quran in hand (I was reading), with him as my teacher.
        Low and behold, I was stuck/trapped and in fear. But God showed up, My lost empty catholic heart was ready . I was in the darkest place learning about the most evil religion. The entire world/life had, no meaning, no value and no purpose.
        My phone rang one night. A local church Pastor assistant (another story how my number was on their roll) ,asking me “Is there anything I can pray for you about”? Three hours later after he listened to my cries and answered many questions and instructed me to get my Holy Bible out (because we all had one somewhere), he shared Romans & John and led me to repentance. I was Born Again every burden lifted instantly. I literally was jumping for joy and praising my Jesus as I cried in relief and total peace consumed me. 😍 (The Arab disappeared once I shared the gospel with him 3x)
        Never called me again.
        That was the beginning of what I will call , a journey for a lifetime.
        In Jesus name I will pray always for all things ✝️🙏😍

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      2. Don Avatar
        Don

        Apologies for the slow response. I was at lunch. I saw it come in, but it’s a lot harder to respond on my phone.

        Many have deconstructed Islam and the religion of Muhammed. I’ll leave that to them since I can’t clearly articulate my thoughts on that subject without getting overly emotional. Don’t get me wrong, I’ve had Muslim friends that I love and respect, but I can’t agree with the worldview that holds people in fear instead of freedom.

        It sounds to me like that pastor led you through the Roman Road to salvation, and what you felt afterward wasn’t imaginary. That’s a great way to do it. That peace wasn’t a lie. It was the moment of surrender, when every barrier between you and God fell. Everything that’s tried to cloud that peace since then has either been old wounds that still need to be healed or a burden you accidentally picked back up. Hold on to that memory of peace. It was God showing you what wholeness feels like. That same peace can and will come again. It’s a promise to all believers. That same peace is still waiting each time you yield a little more of yourself to Him (not man, not church, not system, to Him and Him alone).

        Many are not blessed to actually feel that peace. There isn’t always that cathartic moment where you can actually feel the chains breaking as the Holy Spirit washes over you. The good news is that this kind of moment is always possible. It’s also repeatable. Every moment of surrender can be like that. It can bring that sense of peace. It can bring back that light through which the world looks so beautiful even though it’s wonderfully broken. Through that light it’s possible to see the truth of the world and not be afraid or ashamed of it, because you know that the source of that light will one day return. He already finished what was started and fixed what was broken. We’re just waiting for the results of that to finish playing out.

        Your story, whether you fully realize it or not, is your greatest gift to the world. The things that you’ve survived, strength you’ve found, mercy you’ve witnessed, things you’ve learned, the wonderful and amazing things you’ve seen along the way, it’s all a part of your testimony. When you get to the point where you can look back on your life and see those points where there is no other answer but God, then you’ll begin to see those periods through new eyes. Healed eyes that don’t carry the jaded scars of jealousy, pride, pain, lust, sorrow, or any one of the million barbs that life tries to hurt you with. (Not saying you have these things, it’s more saying these were the things used to hurt you.) Then you’ll start to recognize all of the places where only God could have written the outcome. Those moments become the markers of trust, not the scars of pain.

        Just remember—your testimony is a gift to the world, but a gift only has value once it’s shared and received. Don’t be afraid to tell your story. Someone else’s breakthrough may be waiting on your obedience to speak. You might not ever know how many lives your story impacts when you are willing to share. It’s not about trusting people. It’s about trusting the One who sent you.

        So, thank you again for sharing so openly. Hearing what God has done in your life reminds me that His pursuit is never gently because it’s weak. It’s gentle because He’s strong enough not to crush us while He carries us home.

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