You Are Not My Enemy

Floatie:  The Real Battlefield

Ephesians 6:12  For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places.(ESV)

2 Chronicles 20:15  And he said, “Listen, all Judah and inhabitants of Jerusalem and King Jehoshaphat:  Thus says the Lord to you, ‘Do not be afraid and do not be dismayed at this great horde, for the battle is not yours but God’s.(ESV)


✒️ Forge:  The Enemy Unmasked

The problem with people is that we can’t fight an enemy we can’t see.  That was by design.  God never meant for us to carry this fight.  Our dependence on Him was built into creation itself.  The enemy is invisible to us, but not to Christ.  The fight was never ours to begin with.

Every battle, every struggle, every conflict is meant to be laid at His feet.  He is the one who fights for us, and He has already won at Calvary.

But the enemy knows our instinct:  we reduce the threat of the unknown by giving it a face.  Fear wants something tangible, something to aim at.  Satan is glad to supply that face—our spouse, our friend, our neighbor, even our own reflection in the mirror.  That is the lie.


⚒️ Anvil:  Recognizing His Fingerprints

How do we spot when the enemy is manipulating our fear?  Look for the moment when:

  • A loved one’s face becomes the target of our frustration.
  • A friend becomes the imagined source of our insecurity.
  • Our own reflection becomes the object of self-hatred.

That’s the mask of the enemy.  He hides behind human faces, because if we attack one another, he never has to risk exposing himself.

The only antidote is love—the perfect love that casts out fear (1 John 4:18).  God’s love keeps the unknown in its rightful place.  Fear says fight what you can see.  Faith says trust the One who sees what you cannot.


🔥 Ember:  My Witness of the Lie

I’ve felt this in my own life.  In moments of stress, my mind wanted to put a face on the pressure I couldn’t name.  It was easier to imagine the problem was in front of me than to admit it was beyond me.  But when I gave in to that instinct, I wounded those closest to me.

The breakthrough came when I realized:  if the battle is not mine, then the face of my wife or my brother can never be my enemy.  Naming that truth out loud—“You are not my enemy”—gave me clarity.  It changed how I speak to the ones I love.  It stripped away the disguise.  It turned my fear back toward the cross.


🌿 Covenant Triumph:  The Victory Already Won

The enemy thrives in fear and lies.  Christ reigns in truth and love.  We cannot see the spiritual forces arrayed against us, but Jesus sees them clearly—and He has already crushed them underfoot.

Colossians 2:15  He disarmed the rulers and authorities and put them to open shame, by triumphing over them in him.(ESV)

When we resist the urge to assign a human face to our fear, and instead trust the face of Christ, we refuse the lie.  We close the door to strife.  We choose unity.  We stand under His victory.

And with every reminder—“You are not my enemy”—we are declaring both to ourselves and to the heavens:  the battle is the Lord’s, and the Lord has already won.


[⚓ Floatie] [✒️ Forge] [⚒️ Anvil] [🔥 Ember] [🌿 Covenant Triumph]
This post follows the Forge Baseline Rule—layered truth for the discerning remnant.

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Who am I?

I’ve walked a path I didn’t ask for, guided by a God I can’t ignore. I don’t wear titles well—writer, teacher, leader—they fit like borrowed armor. But I know this: I’ve bled truth onto a page, challenged what I was told to swallow, and led only because I refused to follow where I couldn’t see Christ.

I don’t see greatness in the mirror. I see someone ordinary, shaped by pain and made resilient through it. I’m not above anyone. I’m not below anyone. I’m just trying to live what I believe and document the war inside so others know they aren’t alone.

If you’re looking for polished answers, you won’t find them here.
But if you’re looking for honesty, tension, paradox, and a relentless pursuit of truth,
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If you’re unsure of what path to follow or disillusioned with the world today and are willing to walk with me along this path I follow, you’ll never be alone. Everyone is welcome and invited to participate as much as they feel comfortable with.

Now, welcome home. I’m Don.

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