We Love the Lie

Floatie:  A Comfort That Kills

Proverbs 14:12  There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way to death.(ESV)

Some of the most dangerous lies in the Church don’t come from outside it.  They sit comfortably in pews, hang on the walls of Christian bookstores, and get shouted from pulpits with smiling faces.  They sound kind.  They feel safe.  They bring comfort.

And they lead people straight to spiritual ruin.

We love these lies because they let us stay the same.  They give us permission to avoid conviction.  They let us rewrite the gospel in our image.  But the truth?  The truth is sharper.  Heavier.  It divides soul from spirit and calls the dead to die again.


✒️ Forge:  Misused Verses and Half-Gospels

Let’s name the phrases we’ve heard—and sometimes repeated—without realizing what they cost us. I could probably do a full message on each of these, but that’s not the point of the message today.

1. “God won’t give you more than you can handle.”

1 Corinthians 10:13  No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man.  God is faithful, and He will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation He will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.(ESV)

This verse is about temptation, not suffering.  God will give you more than you can handle so you stop trying to handle it without Him.  If you could carry it alone, you wouldn’t need the cross.

2. “Judge not, lest ye be judged.”

Matthew 7:1  Judge not, that you be not judged.(ESV)

But keep reading:

Matthew 7:5  You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother’s eye.(ESV)

Jesus isn’t banning judgment—He’s demanding humility.  Righteous judgment is part of discernment.  We’re called to judge correctly, not never.

3. “Jesus loves you just the way you are.”

True—but incomplete.  The message of the gospel is not passive affection.  It’s redemptive transformation.

Luke 5:32  I have not come to call the righteous but sinners to repentance.
Yes, He loved you drowning.  But He loved you too much to let you sink.  If your version of Jesus never demands change, you may not be following Him at all.(ESV)

4. “Where two or more are gathered…”

Matthew 18:20  For where two or three are gathered in my name, there am I among them.(ESV)

Context?  Church discipline.  Not a coffee shop.  Not a worship night.  Yes, God is present everywhere—but this promise was given in the hard context of binding and loosing, not as a minimum prayer quorum.

5. “Plans to prosper you…”

Jeremiah 29:11  For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.(ESV)

This was spoken to exiles in Babylon.  It was a covenantal reassurance after judgment, not a personal motivational quote.  God’s faithfulness is still true—but claiming this verse without its context empties its power and obscures its cost.


⚒️ Anvil:  What Happens When the Half-Truth Wins

Half-truths breed:
Shallow faith
Disillusioned converts
Churches full of consumers instead of disciples
 
They create expectations God never promised.  So when suffering hits, the lie shatters.  And people blame God for things He never said.

2 Timothy 4:3–4  (3)For the time is coming when people will not endure sound teaching, but having itching ears they will accumulate for themselves teachers to suit their own passions, (4)and will turn away from listening to the truth and wander off into myths.(ESV)

We love the lie because it gives us permission to stay broken and blame God for the mess.  But the gospel doesn’t come with padding.  It comes with nails.


🔥 Ember:  I’ve Said These Things—So Have You

We’ve all repeated something that sounded holy and wasn’t.  We’ve all heard things in church that felt right but weren’t true.  And some of us built entire belief systems on slogans instead of Scripture.

I’ve watched people walk away from God when the lie failed them.  I’ve been the one who helped burn their foundation down.  Back then, I didn’t care about truth.  I cared about winning.  But now?  Now I guard the Word because I know how easy it is to twist it.

We don’t get to put God’s name on something He didn’t say.


🌿 Covenant Triumph:  Replace the Cliché with the Cross

You don’t need Christian bumper stickers.  You need Scripture.
You don’t need hollow promises.  You need holy posture.
If the thing you believe makes you feel better but never leads to repentance, it isn’t gospel—it’s a lie.
Truth is heavier.  Truth hurts.  Truth heals.

John 8:31–32  (31)So Jesus said to the Jews who had believed him, “If you abide in my word, you are truly my disciples, (32)and you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.”(ESV)

The truth sets us free—but only after it kills the lie we loved.


[⚓ Floatie] [✒️ Forge] [⚒️ Anvil] [🔥 Ember] [🌿 Covenant Triumph]
This post follows the Forge Baseline Rule—layered truth for the discerning remnant.
 
 

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