Humility and Self-respect

Romans 12:3 For by the grace given to me I say to everyone among you not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think, but to think with sober judgment, each according to the measure of faith that God has assigned.(ESV)

Balance humility with self-respect!

Biblical humility isn’t about thinking you’re worthless—it’s about accurately assessing your worth in the light of God’s grace. You are valuable, but that value comes from Him. Humility, true humility, acknowledges dependence on God while maintaining confidence in who He created you to be.

We are called to avoid the false humility that leads to self-deprecation. I personally suffer from this problem. I’m well into the self-deprecation portion of that path. To combat this, we have to set boundaries, even with ourselves, against thoughts and behaviors that devalue who we are in Christ. Each of us should strive to speak to ourselves with the same kindness and truth that we extend to a loved one.

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Who am I?

I’ve walked a path I didn’t ask for, guided by a God I can’t ignore. I don’t wear titles well—writer, teacher, leader—they fit like borrowed armor. But I know this: I’ve bled truth onto a page, challenged what I was told to swallow, and led only because I refused to follow where I couldn’t see Christ.

I don’t see greatness in the mirror. I see someone ordinary, shaped by pain and made resilient through it. I’m not above anyone. I’m not below anyone. I’m just trying to live what I believe and document the war inside so others know they aren’t alone.

If you’re looking for polished answers, you won’t find them here.
But if you’re looking for honesty, tension, paradox, and a relentless pursuit of truth,
you’re in the right place.

If you’re unsure of what path to follow or disillusioned with the world today and are willing to walk with me along this path I follow, you’ll never be alone. Everyone is welcome and invited to participate as much as they feel comfortable with.

Now, welcome home. I’m Don.

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