Love is…

1 Corinthians 13:4-8
(4)Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant (5)or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; (6)it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. (7)Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. (8)Love never ends. As for prophecies, they will pass away; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will pass away.(ESV)

Lately, I’ve been hearing this set of verses used as a personal barometer for the Christian walk. Replacing “love” with our names in the first seven verses can show us where we fall short. This works great as a mental and spiritual checklist for how we are doing at any given moment, but I don’t think many people have stopped to ponder why this works so well.

We call ourselves Christians. The word “Christian” began as an insult toward followers of Christ because they were trying so hard to be like Him. It literally means “little Christ”. Since that was actually the point of following Christ, it wasn’t taken as an insult but rather as a compliment.

In John 14:9, Jesus says, “Whoever has seen me has seen the Father.” So, by becoming more like Jesus, we become more like the Father. We also know that God the Father is the source of love. God is love.

This passage works as a barometer for our Christian walk because it describes the very nature of God.

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Who am I?

I’ve walked a path I didn’t ask for, guided by a God I can’t ignore. I don’t wear titles well—writer, teacher, leader—they fit like borrowed armor. But I know this: I’ve bled truth onto a page, challenged what I was told to swallow, and led only because I refused to follow where I couldn’t see Christ.

I don’t see greatness in the mirror. I see someone ordinary, shaped by pain and made resilient through it. I’m not above anyone. I’m not below anyone. I’m just trying to live what I believe and document the war inside so others know they aren’t alone.

If you’re looking for polished answers, you won’t find them here.
But if you’re looking for honesty, tension, paradox, and a relentless pursuit of truth,
you’re in the right place.

If you’re unsure of what path to follow or disillusioned with the world today and are willing to walk with me along this path I follow, you’ll never be alone. Everyone is welcome and invited to participate as much as they feel comfortable with.

Now, welcome home. I’m Don.

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